Hello, I am Rachel Fitz-Desorgher.

A leading, internationally-known baby and child expert, my passionate mission is to RECONNECT women with their innate inner-mother, to REASSURE them that their experiences of mothering their highly-evolved baby and child are both real and universal, and RE-EMPOWER them with practical, effective and gentle strategies so they can REDISCOVER how to mother confidently.

As well as running regular online sleep and parenting workshops, I am an experienced media presenter and writer. Since the publication of my first book, Your Baby Skin To Skin, I have been much in demand from journalists and magazines to write for them. As the Agony Aunt for Mother & Baby, I write a regular column and host a monthly Facebook Live, attracting audiences of thousands, and I have worked with them to produce a number of information videos for parents.

Since leaving the NHS, I have been the lead partner in a freelance midwifery, parenting and doula service offering bespoke care to clients in London and the Home Counties.

In the first private/NHS partnership of its kind, I mentor midwifery students from Oxford Brookes University. I lecture on infant feeding and tongue-tie at hospitals and conferences, and I am a specialist contact for EDS UK.

As the mother to four sons, my knowledge is grounded in my own personal experience and over 30 years’ work as a midwife. Always more interested in the parent-baby relationship than in “catching” babies, I bring my knowledge of evolutionary biology to my approach in preparing parents for labour and birth, feeding, soothing and parenting babies and children.

I am available for private consultations, both online and in-home, and for teaching, writing, presenting and media work.

Your Baby Skin To Skin!

Covering your baby’s first year from the perspective of evolution, my book explains how to parent by tuning into your own and your baby’s instincts. Order from Amazon

Rachel’s voice will lead you confidently and gently through the most challenging and rewarding minutes, weeks and months with your new baby.”

“A wonderfully written tale masterfully combining primeval labour and modern day motherhood! Packed with invaluable knowledge and useful tips for expecting and newborn mothers.”

“I have read a lot of baby books, and I can confidently say that this is the best of the bunch by a long way. It’s jam-packed with practical information, tips and advice that you can apply straightaway.”

“Brilliant and easy to read. I wish I had read this before having my first. It just makes sense – I highly recommend it.”

Some “Top Tips” from Rachel


How to cope with your baby in the heat.

Posted by RachelFitzD on Thursday, 5 July 2018

3 Top Tips for ‘heatwave baby’

What happens when your waters break?

How to breastfeed a baby

Rachel’s Facebook Live videos hosted by ‘Mother & Baby’

Rachel writing in the media

Mother & Baby
Right choice of midwifery care for me?

Mother & Baby
Here to Help: SLEEP

Why does your baby cry?

Easy Parenting
Sleep Little Baby

Mother & Baby
Mucus plug: What is it and what does it mean?

Mother & Baby
Here to Help: EATING

PREGNANCY: what you may not expect

Women’s Way
Ask the expert: soothing your baby

Mail Online
Is this proof a Caesarean makes it harder to bond with your baby?

YAHOO! Style
Peter Andre’s wife feels guilty for not spotting her baby’s tongue-tie sooner, but what is the common condition?

The Irish News
Do what comes naturally when it comes to soothing baby

A Midwife’s Guide: what women need to know about giving birth

YAHOO! Style
Vagina ice pops are here to ease the pain of childbirth

Mother & Baby
Raspberry leaf tea in pregnancy: what you need to know

Mother & Baby
What does it mean when your baby’s head is engaged?